Valuing Others Above Yourself

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. 

— Philippians 2:3–4

Selfish ambition and pride are often at the root of division. When we focus solely on our own success, comfort, or opinion, we begin to see others as competitors rather than fellow image-bearers of God. Paul calls us to something far different—to humility that willingly gives priority to the needs and perspectives of others. This does not mean abandoning truth or neglecting our own responsibilities; rather, it means allowing love to guide our actions so that our own interests are not pursued at the expense of others. In an age where personal rights are often emphasized above communal responsibilities, such humility stands out as a living testimony of Christ’s character.

Who in your life might need you to consider their perspective more fully, and what might change if you did? How can humility reshape your approach to relationships, leadership, or conflict? What helps you balance caring for your own needs while looking to the interests of others in a Christlike way?

Today, intentionally put someone else’s needs first—perhaps by listening longer, helping without recognition, or yielding in a matter of preference. When we practice this humility, we make room for peace to grow where pride once stood.

Lord Jesus, 

You humbled Yourself for my sake, even to the point of the cross. Teach me to follow Your example, setting aside pride and selfish ambition. Help me to see others through Your eyes and to value their needs and perspectives above my own. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.

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