Stumbling Blocks

Therefore let us stop judging one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother’s way.
– Romans 14:13


After urging the Roman believers to accept one another despite their differences, Paul offers a strong challenge: stop judging, and start considering how your actions affect others. The heart of this verse isn’t just about avoiding criticism—it’s about choosing to live in a way that supports, rather than hinders, the faith journey of others.

It can be easy to assume that we know what is best for someone else. But Paul reminds us that our words and actions have consequences. When we become critical, dismissive, or self-righteous—even when we believe we’re right—we may actually create spiritual obstacles for those around us. Our judgments can become barriers rather than bridges.

Instead, Paul encourages a posture of intentional care. What would it look like to live in a way that protects others’ growth, encourages their faith, and builds them up—even when we disagree? The goal isn’t conformity—it’s love. And that love chooses the well-being of a brother or sister over the desire to be right or to be heard.


Questions

1. In what ways might your actions or attitudes create a stumbling block for someone else’s faith?

2. How can you be more mindful of encouraging others rather than judging them?

3. What does it mean for you to “make up your mind” to build others up in Christ?


Suggested Activity

Take a quiet moment today to ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any behaviors, words, or attitudes that may have discouraged another believer. If someone comes to mind, consider reaching out with a word of encouragement or reconciliation. Let your words lift rather than weigh down.


Prayer

Father, 

You call me not only to walk in faith but to walk in love toward others. Forgive me for the times I have been careless with my words or impatient in my judgments. Teach me to live in such a way that others are drawn closer to You, not pushed away. Let my presence be a blessing, not a burden, to my brothers and sisters in Christ.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.

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